[Unable to relax during sex]

Hello! When I first joined (H)opportunity I was so distraught about being rejected by my now new boyfriend of 5 months. Well, he decided to accept me as I am.  I cannot begin to tell you I have the exact same concerns.  I worry so much when we are intimate- I can hardly enjoy myself.  The thought of passing HSV2 to him would crush me.  He is such a good guy, I have even thought about calling the relationship off because what kind of future are we going to have if he has to use condoms FOREVER? What if he decides to see someone else? 
I wish someone would find a cure ASAP because it’s so stressful living with HSV2.

[Married to the man who accepted me…unconditionally!]

On 7/8/2022 at 10:08 AM, LittleStar said:

No.

I told my husband before we were intimate which was  >5 years ago.

I married him a few months ago.

I feel like I’m having to explain something you have misunderstood.

I am a firm believer of disclosure. This post was meant to inspire those without hope of acceptance.

I told my husband I had herpes before we slept together and he accepted.

Thank you so much for posting this. I joined this sight because I was ghosted by a guy I thought I could disclose my status to (HSV-2) and I have felt so defeated the past few weeks. Your post does give me hope and I am genuinely happy for you.  Blessings and well wishes to you!