[Herpes and babies]

Hi, 

i apologize for the delay in my response. 
Other than washing my hands after using the bathroom, and avoiding sharing my towels with my kids, I took no other precautions.  Hope this helps. 

[Herpes and babies]

Hello! The fear of harming my newborn almost kept me from marriage and having children! However, my strong desire to be a mother forced me to learn all I could. I also talked to my OBGYN for practical steps that are taken during pregnancy and delivery. I was assured if there was an outbreak a C-section would be done. I was diligent and hyper sensitive to any signs of an outbreak as my due date grew close. In the delivery room my doctor was rather non-plus saying the risks of harm are very low but reasonable precautions would be taken. I think I was the only one worried! Both my daughters, born two years apart, were born healthy and delivered via natural childbirth. I think this article presents the facts the best. https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/herpes-and-pregnancy/
 

Don’t let herpes prevent you from experiencing giving birth and the joys of raising a child. Both my daughters remain healthy and happy. 

[Chances of infecting my newborn with herpes?]

Congratulations on your new baby! I remember those days well and had similar concerns with my now adult and perfectly healthy daughters. I suggest you talk to your baby’s pediatrician about this to learn more about reasonable precautions. I also suggest you speak to your doctor and find a trusted therapist to move past the fear. Concern is normal and vital to parenting, but fear is a roadblock. Don’t let this stand in the way of fully enjoying your time with your new baby! 
PS: I think you’re a good mother and your strong desire to keep your baby safe is a positive thing!