makeitrightandbright
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As soon as i was diagnosed we had him blood tested with the IGG test, both came back negative, he is going to be tested in another 6 months to make sure he hasnt gotn it from me, and hes never had any symptoms from it before thankfully.
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No no, ive been with him for almost 7 years. He knew all along before i got the test results back that i was having an issue. He is very supportive and always has been. Im pretty sure i got this years ago, because before me and him started dating, i slept around alot. I think ive just been lucky all this time that i havnt had an OB and that hr hasnt gotn it either
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He does turn me on, tremendously! I think part of it is the fact that im afraid to let loose and enjoy myself, even if i try. Because i feel guilty having sex now since he is neg for H. Hopefully with time i will be able to be comfortable again!! When we have sex now its like H is constantly sitting there in my mind
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It didnt feel different in a bad way, it was nice :) except for the lack of moisture!!
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Yea, i had my 1st OB and had to wait a month, then my 2nd OB came on after i had sex for first time. It went away rather quickly and the 2nd wasnt bad like the first at all. If i wasnt in a relationship, i wouldnt be having sex at all. Trust me...
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That sucks. It really sucks going from not needing any lube at all, to needing it everytime :'(
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So heres the deal, i am a 25 yr old woman. I was diagnosed with hsv2 a month ago. I have finally healed up enough to have sex, but i have been having a problem with not getting quite as wet down below. I never had an issue with this before. Im wondering if H can cause this, or if it is a mental thing. I havnt felt attractive or sexy since my diagnosis so maybe in my mind i cant get comfortable enough when i have sex. Anyone else experience this? Or should i call my gyno?
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Yikes, thanks for that advice there! I will definitely wean myself off it i decide to stop antivirals! I just started my 2nd outbreak already sadly :'( im not doing supressive therapy yet, but i may start if i get OBs to often. Im taking valtrex twice a day for 5 days now until this one is over
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True freakin story!!! Lol
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Thats awful :( i hope maybe it can help me, if not then i will have to try doing something else to get my "spunk" back! I hate feeling this way
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I agree with all of that. They do see it as them losing something that was once so wonderful to them, and i big part is probably denial because they know they can have careless carefree aex anymore (not that they all do but in general!)
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Ok, thank you so much for letting me know it helped you! Ill call my doctorr today and see what she says!
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I have been seeing my gyno for this, but i also have a gp that i see for general health. I need to rethink it all because i dont like feeling rundown like this! If suppressive therapy will help then its worth "the risk" to me!
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Another man, its a mistake on my half. Thats why i have it :'( when the doctor says the whole "kidney and liver test" thing it scares me just a little!
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That makes me wonder if i should go ahead and do suppressive therapy. My boyfriend and i discussed it (he is neg for hsv1 and hsv2) and we figured i would wait and see how bad my OBs are and how many i get before i do that. He is just worried about the long term risks of taking it all the time. But i cant feel rundown like this forever. When i work allday midmorning i start feeling huffy puffy and already wanting to just sit down and do nothing.
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My first outbreak started on June16th as little papercut like areas. It progressed into raised red bumps and then did the ulceration process. Mine never crusted over and now they are little pink spots. On june 19th i went to the doctor and she did a swab of the cut spot. Then june 22nd (a week after my first symptom) i was diagnosed with hsv2 and she put me on a 10 day does of valtrex twice a day. My first outbreak was furious, inhad bodyaches, headache, a high fever and chills. I was miserable. Everything is healed except that cut spot is being stubborn.
But anyways, i STILL feel run down. I dont know if its because im a little stressed or depressed, or if it is because my body i still fighting this virus. Im needing to get back in the gym but even the simplest tasks like walking up and down stairs takes the breath out of me!! Im 25 years old!! Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this??
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Thats good to hear!!! :) glad it gave you some relief!
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Lol life does go on. I know i will be saying "woohoo i have herpes!!" oneday lol. Im still struggling and taking it oneday at a time. But i will get there. I know i will.
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That is one thing that i have been dealing with in a good way. Im glad i know now id rather know than to be thinking everything is totally cool. I am obsessive over anything going on with my lady bits! Ive had an issue with beta strep in the past so i really thought thats what this was in the very beginning. I tested positive for hsv2 but hey, i tested negative for the beta strep!! Thats looking on the bright side of things!! Lol
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Youre right 100%. First date they want to make themselves look good. He called me this morning, saying he cares about me more than i know and that he always wants to be my friend. He says that to everyone im sure!! Im done with that in my life! Im a good person, so if he honestly does need someone to talk to, then im here. But as far as a casual relationship goes, im done with him! Everytime he would start talking about how i have H and how he doesnt think thats whats on him. Then it makes me feel dirty and awful because its like he is trying to point arrows to me! Before he left for vacation it was fine. A few days after he gets back this shit started happening. I rest my case!
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Thats hilarious! Itmakes me wonder if they are TRYING to turn us off!
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Yall are cracking me up!! :) the only thing he has goin for him is his looks honestly! Tall, tan, great buff body, but then he has the need to feel excepted and wanted by women, (hence the sleeping around part for him!)
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Ha! EXACTLY!!! He is always feeding his own ego, saying he knows so many women that want to be with him! Drives me insane...
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I will, i told him to let that woman what is going on with him so she can get tested too.
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Im calling my doctor tomorrow to talk with her about it. If she gives me any useful information ill pass it on