Lvsandy
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On 12/16/2019 at 9:48 AM, Anonymous19 said:
Did you end up telling him?
Yes, we have to in order to move on. I hate the mistakes I've made.
no and my "outbreak" wasn't an outbreak, it was bv 😞
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a standard std screen doesn't even include hsv 1 or 2. I tested negative after my first ob, met my last boyfriend and he has hpv so always makes people test. his test didn't include hsv so had I gone his route I wouldn't even know
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don't be so hard on yourself, my Dr's have given me the same advice. I recently met a man and have not disclosed. the shitty part is he didn't take my initial no for an answer, it had been 2.5 years and few outbreaks the last 2 so I did it. then he went and had sex with his ex behind my back. when I had sex with him after her (not knowing at the time) I brought condoms he laughed at me. well now I have an ob. we spent the night together, no sex told him I used a toy and was itchy then I asked him if he had been with the ex (I saw a pic on facebook) he asked about the itch and I said it usually happened when my ex screwed around on me. so now I am debating because he said he's "with me now" he never asked me to be his girlfriend and now I feel trapped.
chances are you and I are the only ones that have it and fingers crossed we learned lessons and didn't pass it
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I'm confused too, I just take meds any time I feel an itch down there. never blisters or scabs so I think its weird
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thank you for your response, seeing my primary care on Tuesday. having him do a full blood panel and maybe he will prescribe a daily dose if my liver is ok. I don't have a gallbladder and haven't in over 15 years
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I am in nevada. i will call back and see if I can get a new nurse then try planned parenthood. thank you!!
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your on daily meds? my dr won't prescribe that I called today . the dose I read is 2 times a day for 3 days for an ob but my scrip says 10 days
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underwear one time and I think I was about to get one after fooling around with the guy I like. and yes they are dumb. ugh
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I had to pay extra to find out if I had hsv 1 or 2. they don't test for it anymore I guess because of thinking so many people have it. I called my dr and asked to be put on daily suppression therapy and
was told they didn't do that to people just to have sex its only for outbreaks. I'm so confused. I and don't want to spread this to anyone. do just condoms work
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I have a prescription but its not for daily its for an ob, do I still take the same amount or just one? trying to get into my ob but want to start taking medication right away
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after being blindsided with a positive diagnoses after a 3 negative ones and 2.5 years of abstaining I was able to disclose. he took it well and now I really do kick myself for thinking it was ruining my life. Still not looking to jump into bed with just anyone knowing that I could pass it on but I hope that sharing may help someone else
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oh and I want to add how he was so happy to come to my work to show me his clean bill of health minus being tested for hsv 1 & 2 so who really knows if he has it or not.
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I feel strange now if I find someone attractive, like once they find out they would be horrified. so I haven't dated in the two years of knowing. I did disclose to my sons dad and he is fine with it and wants to try again but he is in a sober living house and I think its way too soon, he was just homeless and has nothing
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I take oregano oil internally sometimes and llv vitamins from Doterra and no more obs even when super stressed
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I wouldn't, unless its hsv2 oral
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thought about it but its not a death sentence and anyone worth your time isn't going to care. California has already decriminalize the transmission of hiv and that is scary shit. no amount of money is going to change it for you so enjoy life and have fun
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I was "exposed" by an ex probably 4 years prior to my initial outbreak, but the guy that said he had it denied it years later. I assume I got it from the guy I was with when I had the outbreak because he didn't care what was going on with me and still continued to sleep with me and my blood came back negative. it was 13 months after outbreak that the virus showed up in my bloodwork and I paid extra for that since the std screen didn't include it
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yes I got hsv after I had him but I never kissed him on the lips. didn't feel it was necessary
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ok I should state that kissing infants on the lips is unnecessary regardless of the HSV status. this infant unfortunately died
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I saw a facebook post about an infant who died because of herpes exposure, if you have type 1 and you kiss an infant on the lips i feel that person is just evil
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This site has helped me immensely. If someone can figure out who I am from a user name then so be it. I am the same person I was before diagnosis. Everything happens for a reason and when I look back I have no regrets.
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it does kind of get better, life is certainly not over
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don't beat yourself up over it. just think positive that everything will turn out ok
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no advice but to take the medication. i was outbreak free until I started seeing someone now its back to back. I am thinking its the stress of talking to this person and thinking of just ending it and see if it helps. best of luck to you
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Covid vaccine and herpes outbreaks
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I just read online that osha is giving employees till January 4th to be fully vaccinated. I am just a wreck thinking it will trigger continuous outbreaks.