Th anks for the advice pepper90 :) um Adrial Like what if me & the guy was talking for a month or something it seem like I will have to talk about it because it seemed like he of course would want sex. Right now I'm trying to work things out with my daughters father its been rocky but we've been together for 11 years (highschool sweetheart) so let's see how this goes :-/ trying to work on telling him about my situation also