[Vaginal itching]

Hey all.  So I have been having itching for a while now, it’s mainly on the inner parts of labia, no sores, got tested for stds and bv/yeast, all negative, have g-hsv1.  Only outbreak I have ever had was what looked like a pimple 2 years ago.  I took valtrex for a while to see if it would go away and it hasn’t gone 100% away.  I am wondering if anyone uses any type of cleanser that isn’t going to mess with my pH and cause yeast infections, etc.  I was looking online and saw vagisil carries a soap.  Anyone have experience with this or any other interventions?  Thanks! 

[GHSV1 to GSHV1 transmission]

Can you spread G-hsv1 to someone else’s genitals if that other person already gets oral cold sores?  

[Genital HSV-1 and Oral HSV-1]

Question:  I contracted oral and genital HSV-1 two years ago from someone who went down on me.  As far as dating/disclosing now, if I know my partner gets oral cold sores (HSV-1), do I need to disclose that I have had an outbreak of genital HSV-1 two years ago?  My gyno said since he has the virus already, he has antibodies and shouldn’t be an issue, we share same virus, but I just want advice from the true herpe experts in this forum.  Still makes me nervous/feel guilty not disclosing (but Ive had terrible luck with disclosing so far)... so if it’s something I don’t need to disclose I would rather not.  Thanks!