[Is this how I got herpes?]

My husband had a cold sore and went down on me. Is this how I could have gotten herpes? I had my first outbreak a few weeks later. 

[OB every month??]

So for my back story.. I got my first OB in January of this year. It was the worst pain in my life as I’m sure you all can relate. It was brutal. I originally went to an instacare place and they gave me meds for my first OB and told me to follow up later with my gynecologist. I didn’t have insurance so I never went and maybe that’s my problem. Every month since then I’ve had (what I think) is an outbreak. It seems to go along with my menstrual cycle. I get it the same point of time during my cycle every month. I always get it a week before my period. It’s nothing like the first OB, but it’s definitely very uncomfortable and I can’t have sex with my husband for like 2 weeks every month. Has anyone had anything similar? And is it normal that I get an OB every month? 

[Could this be my second OB?]

Can you tell me what happened? It seems like I’m going through the same thing for my second OB. 

[Second Outbreak Questions]

I’m pretty positive I’m having my second outbreak. I started getting itchy and felt some bumps so I immediately started taking Acyclovir. It hasn’t gotten any worse or better. And that was yesterday afternoon. When should I expect the sores and pain to come? Is the second one as painful as the first? 

[Stressing out about 2nd outbreak]

I got my first outbreak a couple of months ago which absolute hell on earth. I’ve never experienced something so painful and I’ve had 2 kids! Now I feel like I’m getting my second outbreak. I’ve heard the first is the worst but are other outbreaks super painful as well? I just can’t imagine going through that again. I was supposed to go to a gynecologist after but never did. I have acyclovir. Do I just take that twice a day still or what do I do?