[Reactions to disclosure]

I been recently diagnosed and did not think much of it . Met a guy , had a brain fog and had sex with him . the only thing is that he tricked me into thinking he woukd wear a condom , while he took it off in the last minute . After sex , I told him it's dangerous not to use protection. he said he doesn't care ,since he can not get hard with a condom . Besides that we spend a lot of time together ( him worshiping me , we walk , talk , eat , watch movies , share things . ) during that time of mostly enjoying each other company . When it was time to have sex again I disclosed . So he dumped me almost immidiatelly . What hurts is that we live in the same appt building and he completelly ignores him . When he was around me couple of times he act like i have no value . I don't get why he can not at least treasure the moments that we has becides sex and remain friendly . I though it meant something

[Recent diagnosis HSV2]

Just got recently diagnosed and soon after got dumped like yesteday trash after disclosing . it hurts but at the same time the way that person did it showed his true colors . If it would not be for herpers , I sure would invest years in the relationship wirh someone who have " no empathy ". And it end up saving me from future emotional pain and suffering . Hardship brings out true colors . At the end of a day it's about being kind 

[8 Months since diagnosis from betrayal need advice]

On 7/6/2019 at 10:00 AM, Robdarko said:

Good Humans

People have heard me before here. I was given this GHSV1 from my ex girlfriend of 3 months who did not disclose to me untill 6-8 sexual encounters and then decided to tell me when the damage was already done and i got infected. I was supportive towards her when she told me and I wanted to stay with her because I loved her but As I got infected she ghosted me and broke up with me without any explanation. I tried to reach out to her vial text and calls but she was a cold hearted and ignored me completely. The only time I could talk to her was last month and she said she freaked out when things got serious and she did not wanted the stress. She says she did the right thing and wants to move on and asked me that it is a new diagnosis and it will take time to accept but you will come to terms with it and will love on. Also told me never to contact her again and move on with life

I am devastated with this and it is hard with the symptoms and the emotional and psychological trauma.  I want her to acknowledge that she did the wrong thing and has altered my life. She has already found a new guy and is all set off. She is ignoring my calls and texts and is not responding. My question is shall I approcah her parents/friends and tell them what has happened and make them realize what she has done. I am having hard time dating as well as pretty much every girl I tell she ghosts me

I always read stories about female on this forum who are really impacted by this diagnosis but I have hardly read male being so affected by this condition. After all male are also humans who feel emotions, trauma from betrayal and all dont males deserve to be herd and listened to as well?

I need advice from everyone as to how should I confront her as I feel she just wanted to get laid and she infected me within 3 months and pretended to play serious realtionship when she chickened out as I got the infection. Shall I reach out to her parents and talk to them in a polite and constructive way?

I really need some sage advice on how to confront her

i got this ghosting responce after I disclosed to someone with who I had unprotected sex due to him tricking me , saying he has a condom on while he did not . Both of us were at fault , me - having a brain fog , him no carrying if I am healthy or not . But after I told him - he afyer that acted like I don't exist . It is terrible way to treat someine like that . She is just a bitch.

[Shaming people who bounce after disclosure.]

On 7/7/2019 at 3:25 PM, Disgusted said:

Why do so many people do this? I get the need to be accepted but it doesn't  make it right. Nobody is obligated  to risk their health for you. It doesn't make them an asshole  to decide they don't  want to risk it.

It's ok , just tell me that instead of disappearing.Many hours that I spend with a guy was not about sex . Talk,walk , eat . movies . I would be ok not having sex with him but remain social .Instead he dumped me like a piece of trash