Graci

I did not contract genital herpes until I was in my late 50's. The first outbreak was horrible and I was devastated. I thought it was going to ruin my life. BUT IT DID NOT. All subsequent outbreaks were much less severe. I am now 71 and still get a mild flare-up once every couple of years, but I no longer need topical medication because it clears up on its own. Do not despair too much, especially if you get it late in life..... when it doesn't seem to be as serious. My partner at the time was very understanding. If you have a partner who has a problem with it, examine whether you want to stay in the relationship. Compassion should be an important element of a loving relationship. You deserve this.