[Please help. Married for 10 years]

Hi everyone.

now that my outbreak is healing.    It is extremely itchy.   I used to shave but now reading it says that shaving can cause outbreaks so I am willing never to shave again.    I had sores in the inside of my anus as well as it sooo itchy there too. 
 

Any recommendations?  

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

thank you for all of this.   I had no idea they had stuff like this.   Thank you 

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

He’s been working out of town the last couple months and comes home on the weekends.   He has been going to a swinger/whore house.   He still went after he found out I had an STD last week.   I don’t know who he is.   

I went to get tested for further STD’s.   I am praying I do not have anything else.  
 

I’ve never been in another relationship,  I don’t know how to move on.   I don’t want my daughters life to change.  Im a stay at home mom.   
 

I can’t get past this.   I need help what to do. 

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

Turns out I found out that husband cheated on me with a stranger.    Never in a million years did I think this would happen to me.

we have a 1 year old.   Been together since I was 18.   I have no clue what I’m going to do.

 

now I have a life long STD.  I’m sick to my stomach 

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

I was looking at creams online.    What do you think of femiclear?   Does that work for pain?    I am desperate.    The pain is unreal.   

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

@chapstick1520  thank you very much.    

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

@chapstick1520  thank you for this.   I do worry about my daughter who is almost 2 bc we have always kissed her on the mouth.    do you think she may have caught it from us?   

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

My lymph nodes are super swollen in my growing and pelvis area.   Also on my one neck.  

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

@AlliKat12  they prescribed Me 1 gram of valacyclovir every 12 hours.    I threw up all early morning and have had diarrhea on top of that.    I can’t eat anything without feeling nauseous.

I am in so much pain and the sores don’t look any better.    I have about 10 sores 

 

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

@Bloomerhi yes they did and I just got off the phone and it is HSV1

[Please help. Married for 10 years]

Hi there,

I have been married for 10 years and am 30 years old and had my first outbreak.    My husband is the only person I have been sexual with.   In high school I made out with a few guys but that was it.    The same goes for my husband.

when I found out from my obgyn that I had genital herpes she said to have a serious convo with my husband.   I did and I believe him but am I wrong?  He has been working out of town the last couple months and is staying in a home with co workers.   He said he made the mistake of leaving his toothbrush and towel in there.   Could that have been how I got it?  
 

he has never had any symptoms or cold sores but does go down on me.   
 

it is so bad I can not take it.     I had to drop my kid baby off at my parents bc it’s so bad.   I have about 10 sores all around and inside my vagina including my butthole.   It started on the weekend being super sentive to touch and Sunday I noticed 1 tear and Monday multiple tears.    Tuesday saw my gyno and by then they became blisters.     I can not take this pain nor can I imagine this happening again.   Help.  So many thoughts