I have had good and bad experiences with telling a person about my cookies (nickname for genital herpes) so i think its a luck of the pluck lol finding a person u feel comfortable enough to express a secret that haunts your mind of not being worthy or beautiful…i fall into that state of mind once in a while so this was a que to bounce bk and try again and always remember that this is something i have and doesn't make me who i am as a woman or person -Thank you simplyme24