I was diagnosed with HSV-2 back in February, and for the first time, I'm actually feeling a little bit appreciative of the virus. I use a dating site, and before my diagnosis, I was always getting messages from people that just wanted sex, while I wanted a real relationship. After I was diagnosed, I kind if isolated myself from dating and people in general, but I have recently gotten myself back into dating and social contact. I updated my profile to include my herpes status, and I have only gotten messages from people who admire my personality and respect my decision to disclose that I have herpes.
My quality of relationships has only gone up, and I don't have to worry about having the awkward herpes disclosure talk.