jas_star

Thanks guys... so much truths and that I just wasn't being responsible from the start! Oh such a hard lesson and one I will now live with! But it wont get the best of me and I'll be a more responsible person from here on! I still dread this upcoming conversation, but I just have to suck it up and do it... (((HUGS with a few tears)))

So I've got HSV-2 and I'm a bit down about it all, but Im generally a very positive person so I think coming to terms with it wont be too tuff. Although telling my casual sex partner seems very scary! Im 27yr old male and I recently broke up with a partner of 6yrs. I've only slept with 3 girls since the relationship ended, 2 of which were one night stands. Although the 3rd girl and I have been seeing each other for a while and are old friends re-united after long term relationships have fallen through. We have been frequently having intimacy both with and with out condoms as she has the contraceptive bar (sorry dont know the correct term). I've never had an out break, but I had a test done last week and it turned out positive for HSV-2 :(. I know she doesn't have it, although she does have HSV-1 and gets 'colsores.' I am so scared to break the news to her as I feel like I've been the irresponsible one. Both casual encounters where before we started having sex so I can pretty much narrow it down to one of those instances. But I feel horrible for not knowing and sleeping with her so frequently. I plan to tell her face to face cause I dont think texting or calling is right. I feel like I've ruined her! Especially because we were both just in it for fun and nothing more. Any help would be appreciated in building up my confidence and courage to tell her, I just feel terrible! :(