kac002

I met this amazing guy. And I keep thinking how if I meet amazing/nice guys they will be the type who are accepting of me even with Herpes... but then I think about this guy and I get really upset... because he is so nice/genuine/honest/caring/sweet/etc that he doesn't deserve to deal with this,.. hes so amazing I can't imagine putting him through this and I feel he deserves better... how will I ever find someone feeling this way... I just cant imagine subjecting him to this - not his fault so why should it be his problem

I was very recently diagnosed. All I can think of is how I cannot possibly tell a significant other and him be okay with it. It will just be a scarlet letter on my name. A bad title comes with this, it seems, no matter the situation. How long is too long to wait to have this conversation (besides before sex)? How do I go about the conversation? Also, my Dr. Said if I take my medicines every day amd use a condom I can't spread it? Or is the risk just really low? I know there are lots of conversations on here already about all of this, but I don't even know where to start.