matureman

Great story - I am in the same situation right now and yours was a real help. I have met a great girl. I have had this for 35 years and have an outbreak maybe once every couple of years. We had "protected" sex on the weekend except for oral which was unprotected. I know I need to tell her......she is so nice.....and really likes me. She told me that she finds it hard to trust people and now there will be significant doubt. That was 4 nights ago and I am overcome with guilt.