Hi, I really want some advice on how to tell this new man I am seeing that I carry the herpes virus. I am totally nervous to tell him, embarassed, and hate that I have to do it. He is a seperated man whom has kids....was married for years, such a long time. We have been seeing one another very casual for almost two mths, its a natural thing that we are getting really close intimately now it is sitting on my heart! HELP. I plan to write him a letter but want to know the coolest lightest way to do so! Thanks with love