For the last few months my boyfriend and I haven't been getting along, he's has been suffering with depression for a long time and after arguments and not getting anyway, he suddenly told me out of the blue that when he was with his ex-girlfriend, she cheated on him and gave him herpes. Now after we have been together nearly 7 years I've only just found out.
I feel so betrayed, and can't believe he never told me. I haven't been tested for herpes. But I know I've had outbreaks, reason I never went to doctors was because I had shingles a few times and when I had an outbreak I thought it might of been that, and just brushed it aside.
Since finding out about it, I've had a few outbreaks, maybe it's because I've been thinking about it lots and been worrying.
After reading up about the struggle people have with having "the conversation" I can see it must of been hard. But I can't help but be mad at him all this time he's known and never told me. I know there is nothing that can be done about it. I have it now. I want to be able to not let it take over my life.
I feel so confused, It's heartbreaking that the person I love so much could lie to me all this time about something so important.
Has anybody else been kept in the dark about it?