Helz55

Haven't been on for a while, this popped up though so deserves a comment Well ... It didn't turn out to be love Think it lasted about 5 months maybe - I broke up with him I have conducted myself with more conviction and self worth since having H Previously I would never end a relationship holding onto thoughts like "oh it will get better" or " but we're gonna get married" Since H it was more a case of do you actually see a future and is this man good enough for me Although it shouldn't have taken H to think this way truth is I likely would not have met the man I am with today without H - we have just bought our first home together and are very happy H has forced me to be more accountable, in control and realistic with my relationships True story - for me any way

I tested positive for HSV 2 in May and never thought I would be at this point. I had decided to be single for at least a year to figure out how to deal with having herpes. Then when I wasn't expecting it I met a guy who didn't see herpes as a big deal. He tells me he thinks I'm perfect and wouldn't change me having herpes. When we watch a movie and there is a herpes joke we both laugh at it together like it's nothing. Now I get that I've been pretty lucky with only having the one OB so far but it really isn't that big a deal. Granted this doesn't seem like the case at the start but like anything you can adapt and move on with life. No matter what stage you're at with dealing with H life is worth living and always worth going on with. Xox