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I am going through a primary genital and oral herpes OB right now. I came in contact with the suspected infected partner Saturday where I performed oral and vaginal sex with him. Then Tuesday, literally out of no where, around 10 bumps showed up on my vulva and around my buttox/thighs and now it has increased. Then on Saturday two blistered formed in my mouth on my cheeks. I have had an extremely swollen and sore throat since Thurs and just general flu like symptoms. (I have been chewing on Halls all day since it helps with my throat). But what I am confused about is why does my herpes on my genitals not hurt? They haven't busted yet either, and the bumps have been there for almost a week now. Are they going to burst and blister soon? Or when will they fade? Some are white capped, but it is so small I don't even feel it. I choose to avoid medication and want to do things naturally. Thanks in advance for any help.

I am so confused as to why everyones herpes looks different. Due to this, I am unable to discover is I have it or not. I have an appointment set up tomorrow to see my doctor, but waiting to find out is killing me. I am still unsure what it is, but I am pretty sure I have genital herpes. There has been no tingling, burning, or anything. In fact, all of the bumps literally popped up at once in a day. I had gone tanning earlier that day (I tan nude) and there was nothing. Then later that day I went to the bathroom and I had flat and raised bumps all over my vulva. It almost makes a perfect line on both sides, and they aren't really in clusters. None have white caps, and they don't look like blisters. But there has to be at least 15 bumps. I am frustrated, because the person I had intercourse with claimed he did not have anything. Are we allowed to post pictures here of it? I would like to get a second opinion. And with all that being said, how did you know you had it and what did it look like?