Thanks for the replys. I was with my gf last night and we had a long talk about this. Come to find out, her ex had HSV-1 and was always breaking out. She told me she has yet to break out but says they were intimate even with outbreaks. She sais she tried to avoid kissing him during an out break but there were times oral sex was give. So, i think I have my answer. She feels terrible. I told im not mad. For my first ob, its somewhat manageable. Just lots of itching, mild pain but i feel lucky ive had no fever and mild body aches. Its just a shock to see my junk covered in soars. wow. Im going on about 11 days of this ob. scabs are starting to fall off. I hope it goes dormat for a very long time