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Oh one more thing, after we had our first sexual encounter, he got quite sick the next day with flu symptoms that he believed he contracted from a coworker. They work in tight enclosed spaces and he had a hunch he was getting sick. His throat was really swollen (I think that's what he told me). Another thing, he also stopped very early on in the act as he complained about a gross pain in his groin. He thought he was exercising too hard at the gym and pulled a muscle. Could he had an outbreak and either knew or didn't know about it? I am beginning to wonder if he knew that he's a carrier because he stressed that he just wanted to be close but not actually have intercourse. When I actually got him 'interested' enough, he started the intercourse without a condom, in only half a min. got kind of mad that I was reckless in letting him go unprotected, stopped, then asked for a condom but took it off 5 sec later saying he hated using them. I know this is all senseless speculation but I do suspect he is a carrier and knows about it.

Thank you so very much for your prompt response. I know this is a 'wake-up' call. I have been terrible in the sense that when a man I care for or get too infatuated with refuses to use condoms, I back down. Absolutely flying with fire. Is it possible that some BV antibiotics I took caused the positive result? During the months of Sept to Dec, I kept having large amounts of smelly discharge and thought I was having candidas. Both myself and the docs I consulted chose yeast med. and of course the problem didn't go away. Then, 2 days after I had sex with this new partner, I went in to see a new doc, he was able to put me of BV med. As soon as the antibiotics were finished, my discharge problems vanished. Will taking Red Marine Algae, St. John's Wort, Cat's Claw Bart and things like 4Life Transfer Factor supplements that boost the immune system help me eliminate my chance of getting the virus on top of using condoms? Condoms only protect my chance by 30- 50% anyway. And in terms of oral sex, I actually dread being given oral sex precisely because I always knew that I can contract HSV but I love giving it. If I were to protect myself in the future but allow myself to enjoy sex with different potential partners till I find 'the one', is there any natural or holistic suppression substances I can take long term to decrease my chance of contraction? Many thanks to your suggestions.

Hi, I just got an IgG result and am very nervous about the HSV2 part being an equivocal 1.0. I have been reading and reading online. How likely is the result false? This 1.0 figure shows that my body is developing antibodies and so I was exposed. If the result was accurate, does exposure equate transmission as HSV is highly transmittable? The worst thing is that in Apr 2014 my tests for a full panel STD tests showed negative results. I had just had unprotected sex with 2 different men and within 3 days I went for tests because I am always paranoid. I understand I didn't wait long enough. About a month ago I started having oral sex and a short episode of genital sex with a new guy. There's really no telling who gave it to me unless I ask all 3 guys to get tested? I am sure they won't do it. :( There are no symptoms yet but I have also read that sometimes they appear deep in the vagina and are very hard to detect. I am worried sick. Please comment. Thanks.