My new wife of 1 year just returned from her doctor and told me that she has been diagnosed with Genital Herpes. She presented the attitude of not being overly concerned and has been prescribed Valtrex. I am now concerned that she was unfaithful and contracted the herpes from a previous acquaintance of hers thru an affair I believe she may have had with him.
I have had suspicions that she has been unfaithful, recently during a business trip that I took a few months ago. My concerns then prompted me to start monitoring some of my spouses activities on her phone. Earlier in the week her phone’s GPS showed her being parked in the outskirts of a large parking lot for a couple of hours one afternoon after work. I found that regular phone calls have been occurring between her and an old acquaintance of hers as well, with conversations sometimes lasting an hour. I know her old acquaintance and do not know if she had dated him in the past. I do know he is somewhat of a DOG, exhibiting an extensive promiscuous behavior with many other women, which he revealed to me during a discussion we had before I married my spouse.
When I confronted my spouse with the history of calls to her old acquaintance, the GPS data, and my suspicions, especially with the revelation of her new diagnosis with Herpes, she adamantly denied any infidelity, especially about any meeting between her and her old acquaintance occurring in the outskirts of a large parking lot, which her GPS had plotted. . She had no explanation as to why her phone GPS placed her in the awkward location of the parking lot, I now have the belief that she was exposed to herpes during this parking lot meeting, and had an outbreak a few days later, prompting her to seek medical attention Immediately after this discussion she told me she would cut of contact with her old acquaintance.
I did not rule out the possibility that I may have had Herpes, with never and outbreak, and had possibly passed it along to her. I visited my doctor, whom has seen me for over 10 years and had an examination, and some blood test, all of which showed no indications of me having any Herpes outbreak ,
I would have never believed that my new spouse would cheat on me, but with the recent events, there are strong doubts. We recently had a few disagreements in the past few month, and I felt something was not right in the marriage after those disagreements. I was always told to trust your gut instinct in these matters. The bottom line is that I believe the disagreements we had in the past months have prompted her to rethink our marriage, possibly stray outside of the marriage with an old acquaintance, and accidently contract herpes from her acquaintance unknowingly. I know that there is no evidence that he has herpes, but I am at a point to confront him with my concerns and question him as to if he has herpes.
I also understand, that through reading about genital herpes, that one can acquire the virus and never have an outbreak, with the virus remaining dormant in the body for years. I have never experience this issue with any women I have had a relationship with .
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
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