Hello all. I was diagnosed with Hsv2 a little over a week ago. I was not showing any symptoms but wanted to get tested because after years of being single I had finally found a great guy I really liked and we had gone on a few great dates and things were heating up. I got tested and we ended up having sex before I got the results. If I had thought I had it I never would've done that. Two days ago I told him I have it and he was very understanding and nice but said it's to much for him to deal with.
I think I may have had this for a long time but have either had very few outbreaks or didn't know I was having them. when my doctor gave me the diagnosis last week I wanted to do suppressive therapy in case the guy I was seeing was ok with it. I My doctor put me on acyclovir and I was immediately miserable. Within 24 hours I had a headache, nausea, chills, cough, and problems concentrating. I asked to try valacyclovir instead but I'm having the same problem. I stopped taking both since he doesn't want to see me anyway. The other side effects have stopped but I still have a really bad cough and rattling feeling in my lungs.
And now to to it all off I'm having what I now know is a breakout. I'm confused now as to if the issues I'm experiencing are due to the breakout or the medication.
I don't know what to do anymore. I have a doctor's appointment on Thursday to discuss the medication issues but all of this has just been so unexpected and I'm emotionally drained. Two weeks ago I was happy and thought I had finally found someone I really connected with, got moved to an awesome new position at work. But now all I can think is that I'm 40 with a job where I work odd days and hours so dating had been hard enough already. Now I feel like it's going to be even that much harder to date when I'm ready again. And I may not be able to tolerate the medication even if I find someone nice again.
Has anyone experienced anything similar?