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@fitgirl, kinder & WCs Dancer - Thank you so much for your support. I watched all the videos and took your advice. I had the disclosure talk. It could not have gone better! I told him I something important to talk to him about, and told my brief story. I asked him if he knew much about it and he said "no". I gave him a brief run down of what it is, and offered to answer any questions about my experience with it, and anything he wanted to know about my health. He asked me a few questions and what he needed to know to be safe, and then I waited for the ax to fall.... He looked at me, and said "so what you are telling me is that you have this virus that sucks, and you want me to know about it so that I dont get it?" I said "Yes." He said "Thank you for telling me." He waited a bit, and said, "What? Did you think this was a deal breaker?" and I said "yes" and he said "Nope. No way" :)

Thank you both so much. We are having dinner on Friday. I would like to tell him . (Enter sick feeling in my stomach. ) @kendet what do you mean by "real" information?

Hi All I am a 49 yo woman who has had H since I was 23. Back then, it was absolutely horrifying for me. I remember all of those feelings so well. I had only two sexual partners before that, and could not believe what happened to me. I have had the talk only once. With my husband. He accepted me, and loved me anyway. So, we dated for 5 years and I married him. Now, after 25 years, we have decided to separate. I have met someone who I am totally attracted to, and he is attracted to me too. We talk on the phone and chat daily and really enjoy his company when we get together. I cannot think of anything more wonderful than enjoying a sexual relationship with him. I have not told him anything yet, and have no idea how he will take my secret. Things are starting to heat up, and I cannot keep putting it off. I am terrified. Thoughts?