Dazedkonfused

Thanks all. So after a lot of thought and emotions I have decided to avoid the topic all together. If he knew and didn't tell, I don't want to know. I've never seen him have a cold sore, ever.. And I don't want to know about the cream. My doctor knows how to protect baby and I know I could get an outbreak someday, but I just want to move on from this news. I have a Valtrex script and am waiting to hear back from Dr about scores... He doesn't seem to be bothered, I'm certainly bothered but no one is dying here so I don't want to know anything about anything. :( I love him and our baby, and our marriage and the emotional place we've worked towards after all the ugly times so..whatever will be, will be. I love this forum and I draw so much strength from the stories here. Thank you again!

My husband and I had an on again/off again relationship for the longest time, recently married. It'll be 5 years in September, neither of us had ever been tested for H, besides my anual exams/usual std pannel. Now in meeting with my obgyn after prenatal blood work I'm informed of my positive status and obviously upset. I head home and sit in silence before he comes and asks how things went, I said fine and then burst into tears. Upon hearing the news he basically shrugs, asks if it's dangerous for baby ..I say not really, he says he loves me and wants to hold me..I cry more and we fall asleep. Wake up and not one more word about it. No questions, no concerns, and he showed no interest in getting tested, we had sex that evening and it's been 3 days since that convo. I guess my question is what am I supposed to think? I know it's not the end of the world, and with no symptoms we can't exactly point fingers.. Not that I want to, but is this the reaction or non reaction you'd expect? He does get "ingrown hairs"..symptoms? Also I found acylovir cream in his toiletry stuff, says for cold sores on the tube. But I'm hsv 2 +? Confused. Help.. Do I pry?