Heyyyy sorry been so long in replying when my first OB went I just wanted to forget it all!! It was that horrendous!!! It wasn't that it was hurting to pee which is was as well it was the fact my bladder nerves had gone into spasm so I literlt could not let my wee flow!!! I tried everything it was hell! So catheter was put in Cose I could not wee it was the most weirdest excperience of my life! U take going for a wee for granted!! So I had it removed a week after I was strugaling with taking a pee and I found it hard a bit after it was removed going for a wee but nothing like befor I drank 2 pints of water then weed then so on for next 48 hours but my sores had gone by then so my body wasn't as tense!! I'm just so glad that im the recurant OB are apparently nothing like befor so I will never get that urine retention ever agin!!! The nurse said to me that herpes is nothing to worry about that if they didn't give me the tablet i forget the name to try and stop the virus being so bad that it would of just gone away it self and the fact I was so poorly flu symptoms to the max massive glands in my groin urine retention is a good thing Cose it means my body was fighting it and further OB would b nothing Manuel one colslaw down ther!!! So thank god!! Never been in so much pain in my fuking life x love x