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Will a culture lmk if its type 1 or 2? When they called with results I was told they wouldn't be able to tell me based on the culture.

They didn't tell me if it was HSV1 or 2. I have another appointment this Wednesday and I'm going to ask for a blood test. We have been dating since May. I've had bumps in the past but Ive always gone in to get them checked and have been told they were ingrown hairs another time I was told I had muluscom(not sure if I spelled that correctly). As far as his reaction, he was concerned and upset but not mean. Thanks for all of your advice!

I found out I have herpes this past Sunday. I have basically been crying since then. I went in for my annual exam for BC and the doctor noticed bumps that I thought were razor burn or ingrown hairs She said they looked suspicious but she wasn't 100% sure.I was given meds for good measure and she cultured. The results were positive. I'm seriously shocked. I have no idea how this happened. I've been inside my head, racking my brain trying to figure out at which point in my life did I come in contact with this. I have two beautiful kids. I had no issues with them but what if I had had it, not known, and passed it to them. I feel like I need to isolate myself. I've bought a separate hamper for my dirty clothes, tossed my bar soaps, I made it clear to my daughter that we can no longer share towels. I even disinfect the bath tub and toilet seat after I use it. Luckily, I have friends that have been there for me. The man I am dating has been very supportive also, he's never shown symptoms and he's planning on getting tested. grateful to that, but I can't help but feel ashamed and dirty(no offense). What does this mean for my love life? What if his test comes back negative? What if it comes back positive? Am I never going to be able to receive oral? I feel like I'm going to have to wear a giant condom that goes over my entire body. I have so many questions. Do I need to be on my medication at all times or only during a breakout? What supplements should I take to care for my immune system? My symptoms were very mild, does this mean my next breakout will be horrible? I have been researching and reading and googling. I'm so glad I found this site. I still have all of these negative feelings and my self esteem basically doesn't exist anymore but this site lifts my spirits. It conforts me knowing I'm not alone. I want to be proactive about this and I'm sure it will come as time passes. Thanks for providing a safe place .