I have had h for seven years... and I'm still in denial. It eats me alive and I have a pretty significant anxiety disorder from all the stress of my life and this as the cherry on top. I dont know if I'm tired all the time because I'm depressed or if its directly a cause of h. I cant remember if its 1 or 2... when I was diagnosed all I heard was Herpes.... and the rest was a blur... my husband stuck by my side for 4 years and now he left me for another woman. I dont even know how to get my life back.