ceegee

I am new here and the reason I came aboard is I contracted genital herpes 35 years ago when I was young did not know any better from a man who failed to disclose to me. Fast forward, I met a man at 21 years old and disclosed to him; he had no problem with it. We got married and I was with him for 27 years. I have not had an outbreak for over 20 years. I am divorced now, 5 years, and am just started dating again. I met a man I really like and I am having serious anxiety about disclosure. Being my age, things are different than with younger people. This man has had only one partner in his entire life...I had multiple partners prior to marriage, but I was faithful for the entirety of my marriage. I'm not sure when to disclose. We've only been out a few times although we talk and text quite a bit. I don't want to take to much time as he has already told me how much he likes me...I like him alot too. I don't think sex is in the near future, but I don't want to wait until our relationship grows deeper. Any advice?