I am just about terrified right now. I am worried I have herpes or worse. On Saturday November 19th I had sex with female friend of mine who I personally know has had a boatload of sexual partners. I saw no blisters on her lips or her vagina. I performed oral sex on her once with no barrier for maybe 5 minutes. Then I performed oral on her with no barrier. We did very little kissing. It was mostly penetration and we did with a latex condom that did not break. I did cuddle with her with no rubber on and her vaginal secretions came in contact with my penis.
The next day after sex I noticed my throat was really sore and I felt sick. I thought it was just a cold. Then a woman I was seeing previously told me rumors were going around that she had herpes. This terrified me. I got sicker and sicker that week and went to the hospital Saturday the 26th. They gave me blood and urine tests and were testing for stds. I dont know till tomorrow or Friday and I am petrified.
My current symptoms have been flu like symtoms, not much appetite, stomach was mucousy, it burns when I pee, it literally feels like there is something in the opening of my penis, and my urine has smelled bad. My appetite and energy are back now but still that feeling like there is a needle shoved in the tip of my penis. However I have looked over my penis, testicles and thighs and there is not a single bump, lesion, or anything present. And it doesnt hurt at all. HELP!