I've had HSV 1 since around 13-14 years old. I've always been careful of not kissing anyone if I suspect any breakout wether visible or not. I've had long-term relationships ranging from 3-6 years with high sexually activity and have never given it to any of my previous partners. I'm currently in a relationship (6 years now). We don't have sex often. She's never shown any signs of an HSV outbreak. I gave her oral and a few weeks later she breaks out with what (waiting for results) we're 98% sure is HSV. I had no signs or symptoms of an outbreak at the time. Her breakout is pretty bad, too. All over her thighs, buttocks, and it spread to her vaginal area. If I gave this to her, I feel terrible about it. I don't understand how I could've been in other relationships both long and short term without spreading it to a single partner and now this? And why now? We've been together for almost 6 years? She had no visible outbreak on her lips or face either... I'm confused. Can someone shed some light on this, please?
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