So I have been diagnosed with genital HSV1 for about a year. I have had a few sexual partners, they were all okay with the herp but some of them clearly felt uncomfortable and proceeded to stop talking to me. But I have been on two dates with someone and I really want to try a relationship but sometimes I get nervous that when I tell him he won't think I'm "perfect" anymore. I'm wondering when is a good time to disclose to him and some tips on what to say