I have known I have HSV 2 for a while, but I just found out that I have HSV 1 as well. I got both from my last boyfriend so I have never had to make a disclosure to anyone yet. Before I even disclose to a new partner that I have HSV 2, should I not kiss him before disclosing I have HSV1? Btw, I have never had a cold sore.
Also, I have been reading some disclosure posts. Yes, herpes is not great, but is anyone worrried that a new partner could have some STD that is even worse and not telling you? I was wondering if anyone asks potential partners to get tested and see the results before you even disclose your condition? And I don't just mean them taking the standard STD tests, I also mean the HSV and Hepatitis tests and seeing in their medical histories if they have genital warts. I am so paranoid of getting another STD. Like I said, herpes sucks, but there are so many other more potentially harmful diseases that I am so fearful of dating again.