I was diagnosed in March of 2016 and became pregnant in August of that same year. I was started on antivirals 3 months before my due date (May 18), because I was having an outbreak. My baby came early, however (April 21), after being back on them for less than a week (lack of transportation, wasn't able to get prescription). She is my first child, so to say I was concerned about having HSV-2 would be an understatement. I also was only in labor for around 3 1/2 hours. I arrived at 9 pm, already in labor (water broke). 30 minutes later I was being raced up to a delivery room. There was zero time to actually check and see if I was having an active outbreak. My daughter is 2 months old and completely healthy. I'm still concerned though (I fear auto-inoculation).
As for my partner, I can't answer this. He swears up and down he does not have HSV-2, but he's never been tested for it. He says he's been tested before, but HSV isn't routine STD testing like he thinks it is. Not worth the fight on that one.