I had (unprotected) sex with a guy I'm seeing for the first time on a Thursday (he also performed oral on me) and then again the Sunday after that. I experienced my first outbreak starting on Tuesday-ish of the following week. I have all the telltale symptoms of a primary outbreak (fever, pain in the groin, pain while urinating, some blisters) and they've gotten better with an acyclovir regimen. Is he most likely the person who gave it to me? I asked if he was clean and he said he was, but of course he might not have known his HSV status, since it's not standard, which is insane to me.
I did have what I thought was a yeast infection about a month ago, but now I'm worried that the yeast infection was maybe this all along. Is there any way to know?
I have asked my ex who I was with before this current guy to go get tested, and hopefully he is conclusively negative, and then I can be sure that it was the guy I'm currently seeing who spread it.
I am so nervous about talking to him about this, because I don't want to seem like I'm accusing him, but I also don't want him to think that I DEFINITELY spread it to him when we had sex for the first time, so my "disclosing" conversation is much different than most. Any advice on how to proceed?
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