Gypsysoul

About a week and a half ago, I received an email from a random lady that said they she had divorced her wife and in the mix of that she found out her ex was having an affair with my soon to be ex husband, and they were diagnosed with a STD. No one would give me answers not even him. I am casually seeing someone new almost the 3 months, I feel safe with him, and he needed to know, so i sent him the screenshot of the email from the lady. I made an appt the next day to go get a full STD panel, everything came back negative except the HSV1 & HSV2 panel. Fast forward to about 2 days ago, I received the call from the Dr that the HSV2 came back positive and indicated genital herpes. I shot him a text, since he works all the damn time to let him know. I keep saying im sorry because I'd didn't know, I didn't have symptoms or anything, they cant tell how long ive had it, he tells me its not my fault. My new guy has been extremely distant. I asked him if we could have dinner and talk about all of this, and he asked me what is there to talk about? I told him what's gonna happen between us. All he said is "im just hoping I didn't get it too" Is there anyway i can help ease his mind? Every sexual encounter has been unprotected and its stretched over the beginning of August until now. I don't know why i am so afraid to lose this guy. Just need help ;(