I’m searching for any story where someone was in a long term monogamous relationship and over five years later is diagnosed with a new hsv1 Genital infection. My partner has no history of cold sores and my swan test was positive and blood test was negative which means it’s a new infection to me. My hubby was a bit promiscuous in his younger years but swears he has never had any symptoms. We’ve been married for 5 years and together for 6.5 years. Is it possible he is just a carrier and we went 6 years without me contracting it?? Is the only way I got it is if he cheated?? I’m very secure in my relationship but I can’t understand how I got this new infection if he’s never shown signs and we’ve been together for this long. Any insight would be so much appreciated. I don’t want to accuse him of something but I’m having a hard time dealing with this and trying to figure it all out.