Alli9966

Thank you.

Hi Optimist; Yeah unfortunately he knew he had it. I asked him if he was ever actually tested and his response was “no, it wasn’t necessary. I already knew I had it”. He said he was embarrassed to tell me. I’m so angry because I wasn’t given the opportunity to take precautions. He took that from me. All he can say now is that’s he sorry and we can’t rewrite the past. Really?

Just found out at the age of 51 that I have Herpes 2. After being married and in a monogamous relationship for 23 years, my ex and I divorced because he was very abusive and I couldn’t live like that anymore. Fast forward 10 years and I am remarried to an older guy who I thought was my soulmate. Well I guess he’s not since he knew he had herpes and never thought to tell me about it. I’ve had it for years as I’ve had some outbreaks but didn’t put 2 and 2 together. This last one was a doozy. My husband mentioned it could be herpes and I was like, what? Well he was right. I am completely crushed that he kept this from me and now I have to suffer the pain and embarrassment because of him. Life is so unfair. I just want to die. - clear