Just got diagnosed with genital (visually) 2 weeks ago...devistating isn't a strong enough word to describe the feeling. IgG came back negative and I'm still waiting on the IgM results, so I don't know if 1 or 2.. Doc says neg IgG likely points to a new infection. I'm happily married, infatuated with my wife and honestly don't know how I could have picked up a new infection. She's getting tested next week...
If she does not have it, I'm absolutely sickened at the thought of possibly passing it to her. My heart breaks at the thought of our relationship having to change to accommodate this virus. Glad I stumbled onto this forum, as it has been one of the few things to calm me down. Obviously, I don't know all of the specifics yet, however, I have some immediate questions (my apologies for the bluntness):
1. If she is negative, I get that we should use a condom, but what about touching? Will she be able to touch my uncovered penis without risking exposure? What about oral sex? Should that be avoided? No one seems to speak to specific sexual acts or scenarios, they just say "wear a condom".
2. If she is negative, is it safe for me to perform oral sex on her? Can I pass genital to her orally?
Sincerely, thank you all for your stories, advice and support. This is something no one ever thinks they will go through.
Kyle