chocolatelover

@lifegoesonn Thank you, I definitely will not do that during an outbreak if I get one again.

@lifegoesonn Let’s get one thing straight. Like I said before in the post I am completely new to this, before I had hsv1 I had no clue this was even as common and I am aware now. And I suggested he get tested, because it would make me feel comfortable to know if he has it or not wether the chances of you getting is high. Drs told me it’s contagious and that I couldn’t kiss, which I didn’t know what that meant and the time. And yes you came off a little rude, but no need for that I’m just trying to understand it like everyone else that is new at this. Maybe because you have the knowledge I don’t doesnt mean you need to get pissed off at me nor the fact that I want him to get tested. @littlestar As am I learning more and more it I’m okay with it, I’m not as sad as I was before. And I am educating my boyfriend as much as I can, which I know both of us need the knowledge because he’s even more clueless than me, and I’ve learned a lot in a matter of days. So thank you so much @littlestar

@littlestar I’m still new to all of this. I told him it’s okay to kiss me be still hasn’t, and I told him I miss kissing you and he’s like can you even kiss me? Since the I’ve been trying to do so much homework on it, because before I was sad but I wasn’t trying to think about it much. But I miss him, and I know he’s been distant because of the news.

@dumfounded Idk, maybe I asked him if he’s ever had a blister and he said no. But he’s getting checked hopefully soon. Thank you for responding!!

@littlestar Thank you so much for your response. I appreciate it! I asked him to get a test because I don’t know if I would’ve passed it on to him, which I hope not but then I just don’t know how we would make this manageable? So I can kiss him? Because yeah 2 months without kissing him sucks, every morning he leaves he kisses me on the check :(

Hello, everyone. I’ve been recently diagnosed with HSV1 oral herpes, negative HSV2.. With that being said I’ve been with my boyfriend for years, I had a breakout in my upper lip that’s when I got blood work and came back positive. It’s been about 2 months roughly now since I found out. I told him about it, and I told him if he didn’t want to be with me I understood, however he said he still wanted to be with me. We really haven’t talked much about the topic, because I’ve always been ashamed to have HSV1. Since we found out we haven’t kissed, nor slept wtih each other. I feel like I can never kiss him again, nor have the life we had before. Idk what to do, I feel a little disconnect, but idk what to do :( anything would help. Thanks, chocolatelover