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I finally just started telling people that I have herpes


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Ever since I got my diagnosis, I have been afraid for people to find out that I have herpes. I was afraid of their judgment. I was afraid that they might talk about me behind my back. I had so many fears that people wouldn't want to sit too close or they'd be afraid to use the bathroom at my house. So, I've mostly only told partners and a few trusted friends. But now, I think I'm just getting tired of keeping it a secret- because I'm giving herpes far more power than it deserves. So, a few weeks ago, I finally told my immediate family. I said it as casually as I could, didn't make a big fuss, and answered any questions that they had. And everything was fine. I won't lie- I still worry that people won't like me. And I'd rather be the one to tell another person that I have herpes, rather than someone else. But I think I'm finally starting to be OK with herpes. Just thought I'd share :)

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Thanks for sharing! I'm finally starting to tell a few close friends and I've had herpes for almost a year now. It felt very liberating after I told a few close friends and they were very supportive and didn't make a big deal about it. Now, I need to tell my sisters (who are my best friends and I can share anything with them.) Why didn't I tell them earlier? I needed to work on myself first and find love within myself, but now I feel better and stronger about telling my friends and family. It does get better with time...

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