Outbreak healing very slowly

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I know I have genital herpes due to the fact that my wife started to show an outbreak on top of her right side buttock. I recent started to feel flu like symptoms within the past 2 months (late November) and mid December I started to notice this lesion. I tested for all stds except herpes late November all negative. But I’m scared im co-infected with something like hiv as I will retest in February. Pls im very scared.