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I am confused and helpless.....please guide me

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Hi this jani.... I am 36 male, married with two God gifted kids.


I have a very good job having a good position with 12 years experience.

I am not in my home country as I am doing my Phd from a greatest university.


I am living alone here and was overdriven by sex so on this new year I meet a girl and we have sex.


she ask me about my STD's as i was sure i dont have any major problem as i was checked and tested twice in previous six months.


she told me she is a teacher and are tested every year,


Honestly saying I was not aware of STD's other than HIV(my ignorance) as i have never been to any other girl other than my wife.


I met that girl five times....we have used condom BUT on our first dating she sucked me for few minutes and i lick her just for few seconds(January 1,2017).


then i met her three times in february but we havnt done sucking and licking.....It was all okay in february.


I met her on march 22....used condom but in my second shot at night when light was ON


1. i saw a pinkish line or scratch in her vaginal lips.

2. when i was penetrating her in few jolts white curd like discharge came out of her vagina and all over my shaft,pubic and balls.

3. that night i have itching in my body...couldn't sleep well.

4. in the morning i have little bit itching in my pubic hair.


i had an underground shave in the afternoon.... and i observed...


a white and two pinkish small bump in ball area.


one or two very small white bumps in pubic area....


most importantly a scratch in upper inner thigh fold....no puss... no itching... it was okay in two days and I have white dandruff like dryness in my that inner thigh area for few days...It is cleared now.


Now the problem is that I cannot get to doctor or get tested because situation in this country is not friendly.


Hope you can understand...


and i dont want to tell what the hell I am living in now with this scenario of confusion...


i dont know whether it is HSV, HPV or something else...or its my inner fear.....


anybody can share his experience with me....



sorry for writting too much....because i have no one else to share my feelings with....



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