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I’m taking Valacyclovir, L-lysine plus my normal vitamins, mostly B’s...I am trying to keep my stress down, but this has me so stressed out. I do see my gynecologist Friday, she will have my estrogen results, but I will have more questions. Thank you@RegularGuy

Wrong, not in that I have Herpes...Yes I have HSV 2 which I had for 30 years, but I haven’t had any problems for more than 20. I’ve posted previously about my sadness, and overall I’m fine, but I am still having an outbreak...it has been a continuous OB for 2 months now..I felt strongly that what is going on my be HSV 1, only because it seemed so much like my original OB 30 years ago...acting as if I’ve never had it before, that it must be a new strain.....and I can’t get over it, I truly felt about 4 weeks ago I was all good, vigina all good, then when showering I felt something on my ass. I never had it on my buttocks and it keeps coming back....I think, Oh it’s almost over, and bam more. Is it possible the clinic got wrong results .... could I now have HSV 1 and 2...if you saw my original post I did not mention of second man. But I finally spoke to him, over 4 weeks ago and found out that he has 1 ...we had been together for awhile too “casually”, And our last time was 10 days before I realized what was up, and 10 days before I was with my other friend, who BTW is still not speaking to me, but that’s another whole issue. I haven’t been with him( hsv1) since Jan 26 and the other man since February 7th...why is it on my butt area?..why won’t it end if it’s just and outbreak from 2 that I’ve had for 30 years?...could I have gotten HSV 1 from my one friend and the clinic just said 2 because of area it is in. And the guy with 1 went to New Zealand to surf and visit family just after I told him...he was wonderful about it because he has it...and that explained all whole bunch of things between us...but I was sure by the time he got back ..any day now..I would be better and we can be intimate again. But no not with what is still on my ass...FYI my original area was my vigina (which has been fine for more than a month)and I always read that it mostly only goes back to the original infected spot... Could I have spread it. AhAhhhhh I am seriously starting to lose it...HELP 50andsad

I hope that wasn’t to forward of me to ask. I am hoping that you have good news. Maybe there is hope for my situation.

@FLGator25 I have a similar story I had been dating someone casually for over 2 years, I didn’t tell him because I hadn’t had an OB for 25 years until just recently. I made the decision not tell anyone unless we where on our way to a serious relationship. I guess after 2 years I should have said something but again it had been so long and I just didn’t think about it. It’s been a couple of months since your first post, and I am curious if she forgave you. My friend hasn’t spoken to me yet but it’s only been a month that I shared the information. Well actually I texted him accidentally (really) recently and from the sounds of it he didn’t contract the virus but I do not know if he has had blood test. He did say he was still mad but would eventually get over it. So it sounds like there is at least hope for a friendship. He should be here this week for work,I hope he will be willing to hear my side and let me apologize face to face What happened with the two of you?

Thank You...both. I did start on an estrogen cream last week, plus wild yam pills. A friend said they helped her.ill give anything a try.

I’ve had herpes for 30 years...I haven’t had an OB for at least 20 +years(that I know of) Well I just had a full blown OB and I am terrified I gave it to my friend. We have been dating for over 2 years but we are casually dating we both live in Hawaii but other Island’s, but he works a few days a month here and we get together when possible. I never told him, because I just don’t think about it anymore. I am going thru menopause and have had to deal with vaginal dryness, I was hoping that is all it was. After a few days I went to the doctor and he confirmed it was a very small (1) lesion ob. Of course I’m freaking out, it had been 5 days since my encounter with my friend so I call him and explain. He returns a text 7 days in, but he never has said if he has it, we are now 3 weeks from that night and he hasn’t responded to my only now 1 text ...I don’t want to scare him, with a billion texts, but want him to know I care and am so sorry. I honestly love this man and I have never had better sex with anyone and he felt the same. We really only have a sex relationship, he’s not here enough ( and the sex is insane..hours and hours long) and I had found out in September he had a long term girlfriend, so we stopped seeing each other for a small bit, I love him and didn’t want to lose the tiny bit I can have of him, plus the best sex ever. He makes love to me the way I dreamt of for 28 loveless years of marriage. So I was going to be ok with being the other woman,for now. It seemed like at day 7 he did not have an OB, do you think he got it? Or is his silence just fear and disgust. He’s 59 and shouldn’t have to deal with an STD that never goes away. Should I try to reach out again? I’ve apologized a hundred times but only thru texts..I’m so sad over the fact I will never see him again and I may have given him herpes and his girlfriend. What should I do? What should I say? 50andsad