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A mystery dip! Haha true, I don't have a better word other than "clean" at the moment. I felt as though I had become tainted however knowing it is more common than I thought has eased a lot of my fears. Still freaking out a tiny bit because it is an incurable thing , but thanks to you lovely lifegoesonn and optimist. I feel a lot more reassured (I have since studied more into the subject of herpes and etc.from the time I had created posting that statement) . However, I showed my doctor photos of his lips and his unmentionables and she said they definitely looked like an outbreak but without proper tests she herself could not verify that so I have to wait until I CATCH HIM and force an answer and to see his proper results -with his lying previously I do not trust him at all.

Be happy such a shallow partner left. You deserve better. Once you have explained the situation and the fact you have Herpes. HE is the one liable for his health and for his body. He was completely aware of the consequences and could have avoided more serious reactions. IF HE had of heeded your begging for him to go to the doctors. Curious as to why you would still have unprotected sex despite knowing it was still active? Not being rude, I just feel from this point onwards the use of protection will save you. I am in the same boat and relate. I just hate when people make a decision with all the available information beforehand and then turn it into the blame game afterwards. Especially Liars I hate Liars because my ex lied about having Herpes and now I suffer because of that lie. You are already brilliant because atleast you were informative, truthful and didn't hide in the dark. So keep calm and move on, such men are not worthy of your love and you will probably find a better partner who will be more considerate of you and your body. Even now, I hope that men will not run away from me however I may not get into a relationship until I have healed up and learned more about the issues that now riddle my body. I don't know which strand of Herpes I have but I hope It will heal. Hope you heal up and that you have better romantic experiences.

Howdy All, I like to start off saying BE CAREFUL of unclean sexual partners. I have only slept with two virgin sexual partners before this recent mistake. Both virgins and I checked we were clear, clean and well not carrying anything that would otherwise jeopardise our health and bodies. I started dating a guy and thought it weird he always insisted that we "play" when the lights are out and because I am not too sure what a man's junks supposed to look like skin wise. He even said he only slept with two other women who were clear. Apparently. I like to pride myself on personal hygiene, cleanliness and well on being STD free. Unfortunately, My recent sexual partner (now Ex) has given me Herpes. *Hits PANIC MODE* As this is new to me I had my doctor check me thoroughly and got tested for which strand I got (H1 /H2) I Will get results on Monday. I am extremely peeved as I had to get in contact with my now Ex and ask for the truth. Turned out he had sex with 6 other women and NEVER ONCE GOT CHECKED. He even went one step beyond pathetic and LIED about being checked and cleared before we had sex. He had the audacity to say I was lying about my loyalty. He said I was a "Racey Type" and that's the real cause for why I have Herpes. I don't know what racey means but he says he didn't know and that he will go get checked soon and tell those six ladies he has slept with in the past that he has an active gross thing running rampant in his mouth. If He had of told me this information sooner. If he was honest I would have never dated him in the first place. But Yes Please for your own sake ensure to check your boy/girl friends don't trust in their word, Go with them to ensure that they get tested properly before you end up like me. I have never regretted anything more than I do right this instant. The worse part is, I don't know if I have accidentally spread it to my daughter because we share our food, cuddle and sometimes she likes to sleep next to me in my bed with the rare breast feed. (she is 2 years old). I am freaking out and feel like I got the worse thing in the world.