lifeisarollercoaster

@TequilaGirl sorry to hear you’re in the same position as me but selfishly i’m glad i’m not on my own and someone understands. I have faith we will both find happiness eventually, just has to be done when you are truly ready. It’s a big step!! message me anytime if you need to chat 🙂

@TequilaGirl well, i only just told my mum last week but I also recently confided in two friends that I really trust. They were so good about it and didn’t make a big deal. They were also grateful to hear my advice to help them prevent getting an STD. The hardest part is dealing with my relationship, I honestly don’t even think I am in love anymore and I’m only 27. I’m trying to tell myself it is possible to meet someone else in the future (not in any rush) but I don’t feel brave enough to end this relationship. I think I will be happier single than in this shit relationship but it’s just fear holding me back.

I literally feel in a similar position to some of you girls.. i was diagnosed with HSV2 in Feb.. i’ve been with my partner 4years and this was a first outbreak. As far as I am aware he has never had any outbreaks. He was actually quite calm when i told him about the diagnosis and never really wants to speak to me about it. He was fuming when I confided in a friend about the diagnosis. To top it off, I don’t even know if I love him anymore and I think i am just staying in this relationship as i am scared I won’t ever meet anyone else.