[help I am confused]

Alaialoy88 thank you for the wonderful reply it really does help!

[help I am confused]

Thank you for the response.  I am trying to be more calm about it.  Part of the problem is I am not good at waiting on things like this.      I have a yearly physical the first week of April and I am going to talk to my regular doctor then.  He also has blood worked scheduled so I will ask him to retest.   

The doctor that I showed the results is not my normal doctor and also said she does not even test for it any more unless people ask, because its so prevalent and I did not know how to take that.  I was also struggling if I should contact my ex gf and tell her.  It was not so much to blame her but to make her aware.    I ended up contacting her and her reaction bothered me even more... she asked me what I wanted her to do about it.    Which was not the best response for me.  I ended up calling her back today and asking her to get tested and her response again was not great basically telling me she is in a relationship and does not need to.  She said she would think about it.  Me I have done my part in that area and I am done.  

I am also worried about if I do have it telling someone I care about.  I have had a wife  that  had hsv 2 before but we were careful, used protection and I never got it.   But I will never forget how hard it was for her to tell me and to tell me about other people rejecting her because of it.  I am just going to try and not think about it, pray for the best and I will deal with the results no matter what they are.  

[help I am confused]

I typically get tested between sex partners and have always had negative tests for hsv 1 and 2.   I was  with my last gf for 1 year 7 months.   We broke up at the beginning of November 2020.   I have met one girl since then on ok cupid and we made out on dec 20 and thats it.   I never saw her again.      I got a complete std panel March 11  2021 and I came back  .97 H   which is equivocal for hsv 1.    The lab told me I have hsv 1 but I showed a doctor and she said to get retested, that the results don't mean I have it.   So what is really going on do I have it or not?