joancharlotte

. Thanks. I agree he was using me. So I gave him the test by telling about the herpes. And he failed the test and drop me. Unconsciously I know. Where to find other post I wrote.? Not to computer savey. can't go back and find it. Thanks for your post I know you're right its just on at my age to find another person and sorry again

I haceHerbies one on the Lady A and I'm had one additional outbreak and now I have a new partner when I told him about the outbreak he he left me maybe I shouldn't have told him if its not that contagious we were together for 3 months and then I told him and he completely did not want to see me anymore. He said nothing you just completely dropped me in call me didn't text me and said no more dating thats that so I'm very upset about I think I should call him and tell him that the race of Khan contacting it from me is very minimal thank you

This is joancharlotte again. Do you think he dropped me because I didnt tell him sooneror if I would've told him sooner he would have never dated me. It was based on physical relationship only I think. I wanted to call him and ask him if we could work on the problem but that might be more hurtful if he just ignores me or doesn't answer my phone call maybe I should just give up with him and say it was an experience learning experience at that. I haven't had a recurrence of the herpes 1 and I don't know when he didn't get any as far as I know he didn't say anything about it no that's how it stands and also is very difficult in my aged to find new relationships. What do you think anybody have some help me I would appreciate it

Hi charlotteejoan, I am an older woman lost my husband a year ago and started dating 6 months ago and the first man I dated gave me herpes 1 genital. I was so upset I didn't realize what's going on and then single world in dating after being married for 43 years with my husband. I made a mistake and of course that relationship was over. Then I started dating the new then and he was wanted to to have sex and I didn't tell him that I had herpes 1 after about 2 months 3 months I decided to tell him and he dropped me like a hot potato. I was so upset and he no longer wanted to see me he didn't really say anything just never call me never emailed me anymore and just said it was over. I just don't know what to do I guess I could just give up on the whole dating scene and be alone for the rest of my life or I could try again and this time be more careful is stablished longer friendship and then if the sexual part comes in I could tell him before. But I don't think any man really wants to go to contract herpes from anyone. Especially at my age I just turned 70. So what does the group think about what happened to me its hard for me to get over the last relationship and it was more of a physical relationship I guess then a emotional support of relationship I'm