[New herpes diagnosis, starting a family, safest times?]

I was recently diagnosed with Type 2. My first outbreak was in Aug 2013 and was so mild all tests came back negative. I am on my second ob now and it has def been worse. I am getting married at the end of this month and am thankful to have a fiance who is ok with everything. WE plan to start our family this summer. As far as we know, he is negative. I suppose I've had this for a while but never had an ob.

 

I do not wish to take meds. I will not even take otc drugs for anything. My ob said I would have to take antivirals the last month of pregnancy but I would rather not. Anybody had success not taking antivirals?

 

Is the safest time to not spread it right after an ob clears since I just shed?

 

I normally get brazilian waxes and wanted to get one for our honeymoon....is it still safe or could it cause a flare up?

[In need of advice and answers]

So it's possible to have gotten it from a partner who has never had an outbreak but I have?