I was diagnosed a year ago and I have not had a relationship since. The meds the doctor gave me made me sick. My GYN told me to take them daily and when I did, I ended up with terrible diarrhea. He said to stop taking it and use a cream as needed. I had a follow up visit scheduled for another matter and during that time my doctor was killed. (Yes, you read that right.) So I had to start over with a new GYN. I asked her specifically - what is shedding and when am I contagious? Her answer was that as long as I'm not taking the oral meds, I'm contagious. This goes against everything I have read and been told. She said when I felt flu like symptoms and outbreak was coming. I never get the flu and suffer with depression (on meds for that too) and have times when I am tired for no reason. I started going to a gym so I have aches and pains.
So I am going to ask you - the true experts...
What is shedding?
When am I contagious?
Can someone preform oral sex on me without getting infected?
I cannot move on with my love life until I have these answers.
Thanks!